After an incredible day at the Digi Talk conference with work, I am home with a cup of tea curled up on the sofa. This week has been a crazy one, in fact this Summer has been a crazy one. Home life is busy and work is even busier (in a great way) but sometimes that means me working when I get home or staying late at the office….. leaving me with a serious case of #mumguilt
I’m not the only one that gets mum guilt, right? That feeling at the end of the day when you put them to bed and think about all the ways that you could have been a better mum. You could have read them a bed time story, cooked more veggies or played more sensory activities like the mums on Instagram… but you didn’t.
We put so much pressure on ourselves to juggle it all. The professional job, Mrs Hinch clean house, Joules dressed children and Instagram worthy days out but in reality some days are just a struggle to make it to the end of the day.
Over the past few months I have started to change the people I follow on social media because of all this. I was continually clicking onto Instagram and feeling guilty for being a bad parent; not taking Annie to the park after work or gabbing a Chinese on the way home from work on a Friday afternoon. Now I spend my time following other mums who, yes have fabulous looking grids but also keep it real and tell you when they are having the crazy busy, snot covered, sleepless nights.
These are the badass women to me, the ones who keep it real and cut the nonsense because lets be honest, we all get mum guilt but we are all just trying to work our way through this crazy maze of parenthood.